Break ups: Do it right

After my usual crazy conversation with a friend, we started to discuss why guys don't have the guts to break up with a woman face to face. How some go through elaborate efforts to shirk the responsibility of ending a relationship the way a person deserves with dignity. Between using social media, text messages and sometimes the other woman to do their dirty work they don't have the balls to do.
Case in point I firmly believe that because my ex boyfriend didn't have the courage to break up with me, his side chick decided to take matters into her own hands. By posting the pic of him with the hearts and cake, she was doing what he wouldn't and couldn't do, she was breaking up with me for him on her terms.

It's a shame that people when they feel the relationship is over, they don't have the same enthusiasm to end it with the way they started it. I say that to mean, yeah break ups are hard, nasty, hurtful and sometimes devastating, they don't always have to be though.. If you can be honest and up front and just not lie, the other person though hurt will respect you in the long run. As a person, it can at least be said of you that yeah the break up hurt but he or she cared enough to do it right. In that, healing is easier, you come off a decent human being instead of a douche (male or female).